Has the time come...

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To Suspend LoCA Again?

Poll ended at Wed Aug 22, 2012 8:57 pm

Yes
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No
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Total votes: 17

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Lord Jim
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Re: Has the time come...

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Well, that's certainly one of the many possibilities.... 8-)

My initial reaction was that it meant something like :

"Things are getting too hot with people seriously talking about suspending me again, so I'm going to announce that I've now gathered all the "evidence" I need about my ex's stalking that I need for my case against him, and therefore I can stop talking about it. (at least until people stop talking about suspending me.)"
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Re: Has the time come...

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I read it as a veiled but unsubstantiated threat.

I'm not likely to ask her in a PM I'd rather she answered this straight out in front of the board members.

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I read it as a veiled but unsubstantiated threat.
I viewed it as a veiled threat and posted what I deemed appropriate and meant every word.

I asked nice this time next time I consider it cyber stalking.

She can post wherever she likes except threads I start and or as a response to any post I make.

I've posted this twice and I am very adamant!
Sometimes it seems as though one has to cross the line just to figger out where it is

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OOps, you know you've shat the nest when even Keld gets irate!

Thanks Keld! :ok
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Re: Has the time come...

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keld feldspar wrote:
I read it as a veiled but unsubstantiated threat.
I viewed it as a veiled threat and posted what I deemed appropriate and meant every word.

I asked nice this time next time I consider it cyber stalking.

She can post wherever she likes except threads I start and or as a response to any post I make.
And yet...

Everyone here was quite sure that what PMSP did (which involved an ex-spouse tracking Lo to this site to "keep tabs on her" and using the opportunity of her absence to post detailed, negative, unsubstantiated IRL information about her) was *NOT* cyber stalking?...and that Lo was way out of line for considering it such? (And that I was, too, when I later used that term?)

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Lo requested personal information off PMSP, and got it.

PMSP was open about who she was and why she was here.

Lo has confirmed all PMSP's reasons for being here.

If you had an ex who was posting long frequent diatribes about you, potentially libelous ones, online, would you not want to be aware of it?
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Where have I posted anything of the sort?

I do consider myself part of "the Board" that was put on notice.

Defend her if you will, I'm through and will post nothing more on this matter.

However I mean what I say...
Sometimes it seems as though one has to cross the line just to figger out where it is

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Re: Has the time come...

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FWIW here is the DV card I received from the arresting SJPD officer on the night of the assault;

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(previously, my memory was off and I said July 17th, 2003)


They give this to the crime victim, with phone numbers and resources to assist in how to proceed.

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Re: Has the time come...

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:? I'm sorry if I seem a bit dense...but I'd really like to know: exactly what did loCAtek "threaten" to do? Anybody? 'splain, please. Please!!
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I seem a bit dense
Well, I guess....
Very well, for the board notice and not addressed to any specific party: this matter is now being reviewed by neutral counsel.
If you don't see how putting people on "notice" about a "matter" that is "now being being reviewed" by "counsel" could possibly be interpreted as a veiled threat.... :roll:

As I pointed out, the language employed is so vague and cryptic that it could be interpreted in a number of ways, but "veiled threat" is certainly on the list of ways a rational person could logically interpret that...
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Isn't 'neutral counsel' an oxymoron?
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I, La Loca, was told by 'she who shall remain nameless', that I should not give her the "shits".
I thought vague as humanly possible might then be sufficient, as not to offend.

I hope the above visual aide is not offence to anyone... at all... ever.

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Isn't 'neutral counsel' an oxymoron?
I think (speculation obviously) that means that she's having stuff that's been posted on this board looked over by somebody who's going to let her know if she has some sort of a stalking case she can pursue against her ex...

(Whether she's actually doing this or just saying she is , I don't know, but that's what I believe she wanted to convey.)
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Re: Has the time come...

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Why are so many people here that are usually quite logical trying to make sense out of LoCa's senseless posts?

There is nothing vaguely veiled or cryptic about what she writes.

It's all nonsensical gibberish that means exactly nothing.

Her words are only intended to keep you giving her attention.

There's no substance.

There's no hidden message.

It's all a bunch of nothing.

Wake up.

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Econoline wrote:Everyone here was quite sure that what PMSP did (which involved an ex-spouse tracking Lo to this site to "keep tabs on her" and using the opportunity of her absence to post detailed, negative, unsubstantiated IRL information about her) was *NOT* cyber stalking?...and that Lo was way out of line for considering it such? (And that I was, too, when I later used that term?)
At the time several posters were disturbed by what PMSP wrote, and said as much. Subsequently, PMSP has not made even a single post in the same vein. No one believes loCA's claim that she is currently being stalked by PMSP because her own behaviour towards PMSP gives the lie to any such claim (if one believes one is being stalked, one does not seek confrontations with one's alleged stalker and prolong contact for WEEKS the alleged stalker has given up responding to or referring to the alleged stalkee in any way).

If loCA is the one who persists in initiating contact with PMSP, and PMSP does nothing but (occasionally, by no means always) respond to said provocations, then who is the stalker and who is the stalkee?
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Joe Guy wrote:Why are so many people here that are usually quite logical trying to make sense out of LoCa's senseless posts?

There is nothing vaguely veiled or cryptic about what she writes.

It's all nonsensical gibberish that means exactly nothing.

Her words are only intended to keep you giving her attention.

There's no substance.

There's no hidden message.

It's all a bunch of nothing.

Wake up.

Other than I was assaulted and abused... nothing personal, you understand.

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Re: Has the time come...

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Scooter, she is the current consort of my abuser; she wouldn't be here if not for him; what happens in Plan B isn't ALL that happens in Plan B.

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Re: Has the time come...

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Lord Jim wrote:
I seem a bit dense
Well, I guess....
Very well, for the board notice and not addressed to any specific party: this matter is now being reviewed by neutral counsel.
If you don't see how putting people on "notice" about a "matter" that is "now being being reviewed" by "counsel" could possibly be interpreted as a veiled threat.... :roll:

As I pointed out, the language employed is so vague and cryptic that it could be interpreted in a number of ways, but "veiled threat" is certainly on the list of ways a rational person could logically interpret that...
Thanks, Jim, for at least trying to answer my question, though I think you failed completely. I wasn't disputing the fact that I seemed a bit dense, I was asking for specifics on the "threat" that you, or Daisy, or Gob, or Scooter, or Keld, or anyone else inferred from those words. To my mind, a threat takes the form of "Unless [someone] does [something], I will do [something else] to [someone]." I can't figure out who she's supposedly threatening, what she's threatening to do, and under what conditions the threat will be carried out--let alone whether there is anything at all credible to it. If a statement is so vague that it neither contains nor even implies ANY of this information, I don't understand how the word "threat" is any more appropriate than the word "elephant."

Anyone?
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Why not ask Lo to explain what she actually meant mate? It was her statement which caused the puzzlement.
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Re: Has the time come...

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Why don't you consider suspending the person who actually started the latest round of shit?

Or does what actually happened simply not matter?
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