Dumb? When I was 21, at a private party, the host (a very attractive 30-something) followed me around and finally stole my glasses. She ran laughing into the garden, with me pursuing and then ducked into a garden shed in the gathering gloom.
Being a very smart chap, I sussed out the right thing to do with no problem.
I can take a blatant hint.
I locked her in and went back to the party, chuckling
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For Christianity, by identifying truth with faith, must teach-and, properly understood, does teach-that any interference with the truth is immoral. A Christian with faith has nothing to fear from the facts
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Try your local CL Missed Connections. I've seen it work. Plus, how hard would it be to find an employment recruiter with a Google search and Linked-In.datsunaholic wrote:
But did I get names?
Nope.
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CL doesn't have a personals section (including missed connections) anymore.Long Run wrote:Try your local CL Missed Connections. I've seen it work. Plus, how hard would it be to find an employment recruiter with a Google search and Linked-In.datsunaholic wrote:
But did I get names?
Nope.
https://money.cnn.com/2018/03/23/techno ... index.html
Death is Nature's way of telling you to slow down.
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They brought back missed connections under "community" in the upper left.
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I believe it!MajGenl.Meade wrote:Dumb? When I was 21, at a private party, the host (a very attractive 30-something) followed me around and finally stole my glasses. She ran laughing into the garden, with me pursuing and then ducked into a garden shed in the gathering gloom.
Being a very smart chap, I sussed out the right thing to do with no problem.
I can take a blatant hint.
I locked her in and went back to the party, chuckling
I expected to be placed in an air force combat position such as security police, forward air control, pararescue or E.O.D. I would have liked dog handler. I had heard about the dog Nemo and was highly impressed. “SFB” is sad I didn’t end up in E.O.D.
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So they did. Hmm...Long Run wrote:They brought back missed connections under "community" in the upper left.
Death is Nature's way of telling you to slow down.
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OK, because I figured what the hell I posted something in CLMC. And already gotten a "generic" reply (A one line email: "How old are you?"). Replying back, I dunno. Don't want to play games, but it's tempting to reply back so long as I use the message relay. Not really much of a CL fan, though I have bought tires, a tachometer, and sold a car that way. But I've also gotten some really odd replies. And out and out scams.
I may need to use a throwaway email again. I wonder if any of my old ones still exist...
Obviously, I've never done any sort of internet dating/matchmaking. Too many scams. And I don't want to be a creep either. I feel as if I am, with that "Male Gaze". Geez it was hard not to stare at all the hot rock girls with their purple hair, full sleeve tats, nose piercings, and torn fishnets. But the only ones I chatted with in line were their with their wives/life partners/etc. Common occurrance, I end up chatting with totally open lesbians at concerts. They're the only people I've ever been able to just talk anything with within 2 minutes of meeting- we talked about real estate. 15 years ago at Lilith Fair one couple let me use their binoculars. I talked Boat Racing with one last year at Pain 2017. No nerves, no anxiety. Also no pressure, obviously.
I may need to use a throwaway email again. I wonder if any of my old ones still exist...
Obviously, I've never done any sort of internet dating/matchmaking. Too many scams. And I don't want to be a creep either. I feel as if I am, with that "Male Gaze". Geez it was hard not to stare at all the hot rock girls with their purple hair, full sleeve tats, nose piercings, and torn fishnets. But the only ones I chatted with in line were their with their wives/life partners/etc. Common occurrance, I end up chatting with totally open lesbians at concerts. They're the only people I've ever been able to just talk anything with within 2 minutes of meeting- we talked about real estate. 15 years ago at Lilith Fair one couple let me use their binoculars. I talked Boat Racing with one last year at Pain 2017. No nerves, no anxiety. Also no pressure, obviously.
Death is Nature's way of telling you to slow down.
Re: I want to talk about sex. A TMI thread.
Interesting article from The Economist on online dating:
https://www.economist.com/leaders/2018/ ... odern-love
https://www.economist.com/leaders/2018/ ... odern-love
Globally, at least 200m people use digital dating services every month. In America more than a third of marriages now start with an online match-up. The internet is the second-most-popular way for Americans to meet people of the opposite sex, and is fast catching up with real-world “friend of a friend” introductions.
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Perhaps worse, before she took my glasses I was sitting on the stairs and she came along and sat down beside me. After a few minutes, she said "It's not very comfortable sitting on these stairs. Let's go somewhere else". And I, genius, replied with a smile, "Oh no - it's real comfortable." Then she took the glasses etc.liberty wrote:I believe it!MajGenl.Meade wrote:Dumb? When I was 21, at a private party, the host (a very attractive 30-something) followed me around and finally stole my glasses. She ran laughing into the garden, with me pursuing and then ducked into a garden shed in the gathering gloom.
Being a very smart chap, I sussed out the right thing to do with no problem.
I can take a blatant hint.
I locked her in and went back to the party, chuckling
For Christianity, by identifying truth with faith, must teach-and, properly understood, does teach-that any interference with the truth is immoral. A Christian with faith has nothing to fear from the facts
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Hmm. 2 replies via CL. One was clearly a scammer/catfisher. Or just a chatbot that is out trying to fish email addresses. I used a fake email profile via a relay to reply, for fun, and got an immediate and obvious scam reply.
The other one was a bit more random but looks legit (although still might not be). I went with honesty on replying there, though her online profile I found via a quick name search shows she's not quite my type. As in, has a dog. And a kid. Though at my age that's probably unavoidable in most cases.
The other one was a bit more random but looks legit (although still might not be). I went with honesty on replying there, though her online profile I found via a quick name search shows she's not quite my type. As in, has a dog. And a kid. Though at my age that's probably unavoidable in most cases.
Death is Nature's way of telling you to slow down.
I want to talk about sex. A TMI thread.
If she later becomes a friend with benefits, or merely likes an occasional "quickie" what more could you possibly want at the moment?datsunaholic wrote:... her online profile I found via a quick name search shows she's not quite my type. As in, has a dog. And a kid. Though at my age that's probably unavoidable in most cases.
You first need to mollify the sex drive/curiosity before jumping into a good, bad, or indifferent relationship.
“In a world whose absurdity appears to be so impenetrable, we simply must reach a greater degree of understanding among us, a greater sincerity.”
Re: I want to talk about sex. A TMI thread.
You don’t like dogs OR kids?
Maybe not so fuckable after all.
Maybe not so fuckable after all.
For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
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She has 2 kids, and at least one small dog. Right now just chatting but my mentioning my rusted out 82 Datsun 4x4 didn't scare her off. In fact she asked for a picture of that. I shall see if she still replies after she gets off work. I'm just still weirded out that she sent a message at all. Not sure what she is looking for. Right now it's chat level. Which is fine. Maybe Facebook profiles are next.
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Get in my son!!
“If you trust in yourself, and believe in your dreams, and follow your star. . . you'll still get beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren't so lazy.”
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hey bud.
I had similar anxiety problems as a younger person.
but I had way to much sex with way too many women, starting at 14.
my anxiety came when I thought I was "out of my league"
as long as I was the one who was out of the chicks league, I was good.
what I m getting at is that you shouldn t rule out ugly women.
find a nice smart (or dumb) girl with big buck teeth and a smoking hot bod, or something like that, and you may just not be as shy....
ugly girls want love too, and big girls...., you don t start driving in a Porsche, right?
don t bother looking, just open your eyes to the world that already surrounds you and you may just get lucky!
I had similar anxiety problems as a younger person.
but I had way to much sex with way too many women, starting at 14.
my anxiety came when I thought I was "out of my league"
as long as I was the one who was out of the chicks league, I was good.
what I m getting at is that you shouldn t rule out ugly women.
find a nice smart (or dumb) girl with big buck teeth and a smoking hot bod, or something like that, and you may just not be as shy....
ugly girls want love too, and big girls...., you don t start driving in a Porsche, right?
don t bother looking, just open your eyes to the world that already surrounds you and you may just get lucky!
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...oh, and nix the blowup doll..., if a chick sees that you ll never get laid....
...and ditch the porn collection.
if you stop wanking so much you ll have more incentive to find the real deal.
there s always porn available in a pinch.
walking around with a hard on is great inspiration to find a woman.
let the callouses soften a bit and head on out to your future.
...and ditch the porn collection.
if you stop wanking so much you ll have more incentive to find the real deal.
there s always porn available in a pinch.
walking around with a hard on is great inspiration to find a woman.
let the callouses soften a bit and head on out to your future.
I want to talk about sex. A TMI thread.
"Oh, and nix the blowup doll, if a chick sees that you ll never get laid." Dr. wesw, Sex Therapist
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Yeah, a sex doll was never an option.
As for "fat" women, there's a limit. I've been celibate this long, and I have never reached the "any port in a storm" stage so I doubt I ever will. My Grandfather once told me to find a fat girl who could cook (I think I already said that), which was about the most sex ed advice anyone in my family ever gave me. My parents never said a word on the subject of sex or relationships. In fact, the only other "advice" I ever got from family was my Sister telling me to avoid certain women I was attracted to.
It kind of sucks that the Craigslist personals are gone, since that was about the only way I could think of to send out "feelers" without signing up on some website. Most of which charge monthly fees, none of which have great reviews from over-40 overweight guys looking for a fling. Those sites just have too much ick factor, add on the 10:1 Male:Female ratio.
As for "fat" women, there's a limit. I've been celibate this long, and I have never reached the "any port in a storm" stage so I doubt I ever will. My Grandfather once told me to find a fat girl who could cook (I think I already said that), which was about the most sex ed advice anyone in my family ever gave me. My parents never said a word on the subject of sex or relationships. In fact, the only other "advice" I ever got from family was my Sister telling me to avoid certain women I was attracted to.
It kind of sucks that the Craigslist personals are gone, since that was about the only way I could think of to send out "feelers" without signing up on some website. Most of which charge monthly fees, none of which have great reviews from over-40 overweight guys looking for a fling. Those sites just have too much ick factor, add on the 10:1 Male:Female ratio.
Death is Nature's way of telling you to slow down.
I want to talk about sex. A TMI thread.
“In a world whose absurdity appears to be so impenetrable, we simply must reach a greater degree of understanding among us, a greater sincerity.”