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appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 3:40 pm
by Crackpot
Here's the story. There is an engineer that I work with that from the first time I met her something "familiar" was triggered. I could never figure out quite what.
Then today it hit me she looks like a girl I was talking to at a party 20 years ago who despite my best efforts (the first words out of my mouth were "I just threw up") spent quite some time talking to me until my rides GF demanded we go.
Here's the qustion do I ask her about it (especially considering my diminished capacity at the time) or is it even an apropriate subject to broach in a work environment?
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 4:01 pm
by rubato
Human memory is imperfect for a REASON.*
Yours,
*(except for some freaks like Marilu Henner)
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 4:16 pm
by Liberty1
Go for it.
We were all young and dumb once.
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 5:01 pm
by Crackpot
I'm especially interested in hearing what the women of the board would think
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 5:07 pm
by kristina
I've thought about it bit, and haven't come up with any reasons not to say something.
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 5:49 pm
by Sue U
Nothing wrong with a friendly chat, as long as there is no ulterior motive.
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 5:52 pm
by Crackpot
No no ulterior motive
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 5:54 pm
by Crackpot
But I can't say how she may take it.
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 6:37 pm
by Rick
Oh yeah, you were the guy that just threw up...
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 6:51 pm
by Gob
Crackpot wrote:No no ulterior motive
"I just want to bone her."
Crackpot wrote:But I can't say how she may take it.
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:25 pm
by Crackpot
Actually finding out could inform me if I was being cock-blocked or rescued acually it would only confirm the former and say nothing of the latter.
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:31 pm
by dales
If it were I...
I would let sleeping dogs lie.
Not saying she is a "dog" but two decades is a lot of water under the bridge.
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:51 pm
by Rick
Crackpot wrote:Actually finding out could inform me if I was being cock-blocked or rescued acually it would only confirm the former and say nothing of the latter.
I would think the latter, if you can't remember much of the event take Dales advice...
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:56 pm
by Gob
Crackpot wrote:But I can't say how she may take it.
"Up the a...."
Oh, I'll just shut up now I think.....
Re: appropriate for work?
Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:57 pm
by The Hen
I can't see anything wrong with asking if she was a friend of "such and such" so many years ago. If she was, then go from there.
Don't forget to mention the vomit. Girls remember vomit. It must be part of the mummy-gene.