I don't necessarily disagree with you. Kindergarten was standar when I grew up. (born 1958). I know back then it was mostly a two parent home and one "bread winner" which meant someone (usually mom) was home all day with the kids. I know todays reality is different as there are plenty of two working parents or single parent families for whatever reasons.Big RR wrote:Oldr--there was a time when most people did not enter kindergarten (when I was in school in early 60s, only about half of those in my first grade class went to kindergarten, e.g.), then it became routine (and ultimately mandated in many places); likewise with graduatung from high school. Times change. What is sacrosanct about K-12? Yes, we can, and should, continue to ask how early the formal educational process should begin. And yes, we cannot replace parents, but then we can try to give kids who are neglected with a leg up; it's a small cost considering the alternative.
I know my wife and I struggled with finances when our kids were young, but we made a decision to keep one of us home with the kids. Sure we didn't have new cars like other families in the district, nor did we have landscapers and lawn cutters and all the other things people paid service for. But we made it through and I think in the long run we made out better. I remortgaged twice, lower payments both times but many of those who had their new SUVs every three years and upgrades on their houses evry 5 years now have their houses/stuff on the auction block.
Parents (both) need to get involved, and get involved early in their childs development. Gov cannot replace the parent involvement. If it does, then we might as well hand the kids over at birth and wash our hands of their upbringing.