I'll bet if you didn't have any money coming in (remove wife's income), you would have found something right quick, just as I would have.
I would have done what I had to do to survive and support my family. I'm an EE by profession, but I am not above taking a shovel to the ground to earn money (hell I do it for free in the spring planting the gardens)
At the time there was 26 weeks (forget what it is now) but having never been unemployed before and working for more than half my life at the time (I was 50), I think the gov made out. I think there is a difference between a hand up and a hand out. I never wanted nor would accept a hand out (or at least hope I would never need a hand out), although I know some people who do need a hand out and it has nothing to do with their work ethic. Their old profession is not there, retraining is not there, there is no money to relocate to where their old profession still exists. These people want a hand up and should recieve it. Instead of printing more money to buy bonds, the gov should be targeting the people who only want a hand up and help them become employable again.
I read in the classifieds every day of the need for health care workers of all types. How does an ex electrical/mechanical tech/engineer, who is more than capable of learning how to operate and x-ray machine or other health care electronics get that training when he is a door greeter at wal-mart barely making enough to put food on the table, keep the car running so he can earn a buck and keep his house out of forclosure.
Believe me, these were things I thought of when I got layed off. I saw the ads and even inquired about retraining. But there was no money for that, but there was plenty for bailing out the big banks and corps who laid us all off.