But for the fact that she no longer lives in Maine....MajGenl.Meade wrote:She still has her Maine DL ..... so no problem registering to vote then?
And I'm not making excuses; however, (1) it is not as simple as blithely saying "there are services/resources to do that for your senior;" and (2) having to go through a process to get this ID is a barrier, it makes it more difficult, and thus discourages people who might otherwise vote, and who have every right TO vote.
Let me give a real-life example:
Local service takes seniors to Doctor appts. Mom has an appointment that we need transport for. Transport (free) is arranged by daughter. Date is put on Mom's calendar and daughter's calendar. On a call the night before, daughter reminds Mom of appointment and pick-up time. At pick-up time Mom is doing something else in the small apartment, doesn't hear the phone, doesn't answer the phone, who the hell knows. Transport service calls the building management, still no Mom. Transport service calls daughter - sorry, we couldn't wait any longer, had to leave. Daughter finally tracks down Mom -- "Sorry I forgot/didn't hear the phone/it was hot/maybe I was napping/I don't know." Daughter loses it.
It's just not easy. It should be, maybe it is in perfect families and on TV, but the reality is that it isn't.
And yes, I will take a day when I can be there during business hours and I will take her to register to vote and get whatever kind of ID she should have (which will then re-trigger the fight over why I've taken her keys away), but I'll do it anyway because it IS important. It's just not the first priority when you're dealing with hospitals/rehabs/PT/a million follow-up doctor appointments over an hour away/packing up a house 4 hours away/selling a house 4 hours away/moving into a new apt 4 hours the other direction away/unpacking/getting settled/getting into a new routine/finding regular aides/etc/etc/etc. But for her kick-ass, involved daughters, my mom would be dead/in a nursing home/sitting in a corner in some facility rotting. You have no idea how much we do, and how much we manage. She would/could NEVER do this for herself any more. And that's yet another loss in this last two years of losses piled on losses piled on losses we all have to manage.