BoSoxGal wrote:That is SO fucking inappropriate in this thread, BB. You just shit all over victims of sexual assault, you fucking POS. You are probably too much of a Neanderthal (actually, an insult to Neanderthals) to even ‘get’ why this is SO fucking inappropriate.
Life is short; you’re now on the list (with wesw and Joe) of posters who have nothing to say that is worth my time to read.
You say you won't be reading any more of my posts, and I guess that's your prerogative to do so ... but I felt I must respond anyway. Maybe someone else will read it to you.
Consider your own past. Let's say YOU were up for a prestigious legal appointment — a seat on a Federal District Court of Appeals, for example. Everything is going swimmingly, but then, suddenly, one of your long-ago classmates come forth with an allegation that you traded sexual favors for grades with one (or more) of your professors, or that you cheated on a crucial exam, or that you plagiarized your JD thesis.
How would you defend yourself? How could you rebut that? I contend that after so many years have gone past that it is utterly impossible to do so. It would eventually come down to a matter of "he said/she said", with the bystanders forced to decide whose word to believe... and when it comes to allegations of sexual improprieties against a male,
ANY male, under any circumstances, it is all-too-obvious exactly whom you choose to believe.
And that's my feeling about so many of these allegations of sexual predation made so far after the fact. While I have no empirical proof, it is my firm belief that for every legitimate claim being made by a victim of a sexual assault, there must dozens more where the allegation is shaky and tenuous at best ... and if you are honest
(at least to yourself) about it, you must admit that there exists no incontrovertible proof that my beliefs are
not valid.
But keep those blinders on, counselor; stick to your guns and never admit that there may be other shades besides all black and all white. You're also wasting your time and energy with the name-calling; "sticks and stone,
et cetera", dont'cha know? Besides, I've been called far worse names than 'Neanderthal', with far less reason, and by what I am sure were far better people.
-"BB"-
Yes, I suppose I could agree with you ... but then we'd both be wrong, wouldn't we?