loCAtek's very own attention thread

[dales]

Yes, He did.

Was Rome built in a day?

eta: I'm sorry lo, if you haven't posted anything of substance by the one week time limit, I am so sorry for you.

You have "your issues" as do all human beings but you are the only one responsible for addressing these issues. I have made NO SECRET of my own stuff (on going major depressive disorder, substance abuse, relationship issues, etc.) and deal with it in a healthy and responsible manner. You should do the same, instead of dragging everyone else into your psychdrama. Only YOU can make the choice.

Having met you IRL, I would suspect that doing so is in your best interests as well as everyone in your family, freinds, associates etc.

I had to end up at Elmwood Detention Facility before I decided to address the mountains of shit that had built up for decades. My inward and reflective journey has been a long painful process filled wih detours and setbacks. It was not easy and has taken years. So be it.

Anyway, why heed my advice?

Facing your TRUE SELF is frightening, that is why so few humans embark on the quest.

[Lord Jim]

Well, once again LoCa appears to have found the time to stop by and put up multiple posts....

And still she has posted nothing in the mediation thread, (the mediation that she requested) nor alternatively has she at least posted permission for Daisy to post the PM she laid out her issues in. (posting that permission would take about five seconds)

[Scooter]

Her bluff was called and she is stymied about what to do.

If she doesn't begin engaging seriously in mediation before the time limit Daisy imposed, I am going to start a poll asking whether people believe she should be suspended from posting until she does. She inconvenienced two admins for no good reason, and that sort of flagrant disrespect for those who are volunteering their time to keep this place running needs to have consequences.

[Lord Jim]

Her bluff was called and she is stymied about what to do.

Well that is certainly what it is starting to look like...

It is starting to look like the request for a mediation wasn't sincere, and that it was made with the expectation that it wouldn't be accepted...

It is starting to look like LoCa made the request so that after it was refused, (which is what she expected to happen) she would be able to try to shift some of the criticism from herself to Hen, by being able to say that she (LoCa) had made the effort to offer to try to reach a resolution, but that Hen had refused....

That's what it's starting to look like....

I have tried not to pre-judge or take a position about this, (I was one who pointed out that I didn't think it was fair to LoCa to assume that she was avoiding this just because she hadn't posted for a couple of days) but if she continues to post while not deigning to even begin participating in the mediation, the conclusion that what it's starting to look like is what in fact it is will be made inescapable by her actions...

I still hold out some hope that she will prove this to be wrong but the ball is now entirely in her court on that score.

ETA:

Well I see that now she has finally engaged. Good.