When would you take a large pay cut?

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Re: When would you take a large pay cut?

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Gob wrote:Why do you always make things so complex? It's an endearing, if baffling, trait. :D
Are you talking to me?

Or are you sending ideas into cyberspace for other participants to comment on and agree or disagree with with the hope that eventually your opinion will get to me and I'll respond with an opinion that you may or may not agree with?

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I mean "you" as in American society. You give the EU a run for its money in terms of; " let's take a simple idea, and then expand it into 58584589493473839 pages of legalese."
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That's the American way!

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Keeps all the lawyers employed doing nothing.

Your collective inability to acknowledge this obvious truth makes you all look like fools.


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rubato wrote:
Jarlaxle wrote:
Sue U wrote:I would take a pay cut in a trade-off for guaranteed retirement benefits. If I didn't have to save for retirement -- and the potential costs of long-term care/assisted living -- I'd need substantially less income now.
I'm seriously considering stopping contributions to my 401k...there isn't a chance in hell I will ever see any of it.
Health problems?

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By 60, I'll be in a wheelchair, senile, or dead. (And if I'm not dead by my 60th birthday, I plan to suck my shotgun that day.)
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I'll soon be 61, Jarl.

My life ain't exactly a bowl of cherries, but commiting suicide solves nothing.

Hang in there, buddy. :ok

Your collective inability to acknowledge this obvious truth makes you all look like fools.


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Jarlaxle wrote:"...
By 60, I'll be in a wheelchair, senile, or dead. (And if I'm not dead by my 60th birthday, I plan to suck my shotgun that day.)

Do you think this revelation makes you a better and more interesting source of advice and perspective about the world or ... the opposite?

"I'm going to give up and blow my brains out" just does not grab me as the kind of world view I would find of value except as a negative example ...


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dales wrote:I'll soon be 61, Jarl.

My life ain't exactly a bowl of cherries, but commiting suicide solves nothing.

Hang in there, buddy. :ok
A combination of a laundry list of health problems I already have, somewhere between a dozen and 100+ concussions, and a very poor family history (history of heart problems, ALS, and early-onset dementia) makes me seeing 60 unlikely. I'd rather suck a shotgun than live with ALS or dementia.
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rubato wrote:
Jarlaxle wrote:"...
By 60, I'll be in a wheelchair, senile, or dead. (And if I'm not dead by my 60th birthday, I plan to suck my shotgun that day.)

Do you think this revelation makes you a better and more interesting source of advice and perspective about the world or ... the opposite?

"I'm going to give up and blow my brains out" just does not grab me as the kind of world view I would find of value except as a negative example ...


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Honestly, rube, I was hoping you would finally off yourself and put all of us out of your misery.
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does not grab me as the kind of world view I would find of value except as a negative example ...
If there's one thing rube really knows about it's how to be a negative example...
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Jarlaxle wrote:
dales wrote:I'll soon be 61, Jarl.

My life ain't exactly a bowl of cherries, but commiting suicide solves nothing.

Hang in there, buddy. :ok
A combination of a laundry list of health problems I already have, somewhere between a dozen and 100+ concussions, and a very poor family history (history of heart problems, ALS, and early-onset dementia) makes me seeing 60 unlikely. I'd rather suck a shotgun than live with ALS or dementia.
Jarl, that makes me sad. But I understand where you're coming from. You're a good man!

Your collective inability to acknowledge this obvious truth makes you all look like fools.


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Jarlaxle wrote:
rubato wrote:
Jarlaxle wrote:"...
By 60, I'll be in a wheelchair, senile, or dead. (And if I'm not dead by my 60th birthday, I plan to suck my shotgun that day.)

Do you think this revelation makes you a better and more interesting source of advice and perspective about the world or ... the opposite?

"I'm going to give up and blow my brains out" just does not grab me as the kind of world view I would find of value except as a negative example ...


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Honestly, rube, I was hoping you would finally off yourself and put all of us out of your misery.


You do understand that your opinion is not greatly estimated.




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You do understand that your my opinion is not greatly estimated.




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fixed :ok

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Seconded.
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Jarlaxle wrote:
dales wrote:I'll soon be 61, Jarl.

My life ain't exactly a bowl of cherries, but commiting suicide solves nothing.

Hang in there, buddy. :ok
A combination of a laundry list of health problems I already have, somewhere between a dozen and 100+ concussions, and a very poor family history (history of heart problems, ALS, and early-onset dementia) makes me seeing 60 unlikely. I'd rather suck a shotgun than live with ALS or dementia.
I trust your family are behind you on this Jarl...
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Sorry to hear that jaraxle. Hope you are of sound mind and body when you reach 60 and rethink your decision.

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Sean wrote:
Jarlaxle wrote:
dales wrote:I'll soon be 61, Jarl.

My life ain't exactly a bowl of cherries, but commiting suicide solves nothing.

Hang in there, buddy. :ok
A combination of a laundry list of health problems I already have, somewhere between a dozen and 100+ concussions, and a very poor family history (history of heart problems, ALS, and early-onset dementia) makes me seeing 60 unlikely. I'd rather suck a shotgun than live with ALS or dementia.
I trust your family are behind you on this Jarl...
Don't know. On the off chance I manage 60, I figure all the relatives I give a shit about will already be dead. (Offhand, my mother would be pushing 90.)
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oldr_n_wsr wrote:Sorry to hear that jaraxle. Hope you are of sound mind and body when you reach 60 and rethink your decision.
I'm really not of sound body NOW. I regularly need help getting out of bed.
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Jarl--if you do decide to take that route when you reach 60, please do any surviving family and friends a favor and try and do it in a way wnere they won't just walk in on a bloody mess. I've had experience with suicide of friends twice (one hanging, one gunshot), and in both cases the family was traumatized by finding the body. In the hanging, his 14 year old son walked in one his body hanging in the shed, and still deals with flashback many years later; in the other, a young (around 8) girl walked into the house and found her father's bloody body and part of his head splattered in the wall). I understand that she blocked it out of her conscious memory, but still has nightmares.

I understand your position, and might even reach that same conclusion myself in similar circumstances, but try to do it in a way that avoids traumatizing others. I've long thought suicide centers like they had in Soylent Green would be a good idea for those who want them, but I wouldn't count on seeing them anytime soon.

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My wife has told me that while she will not stop me, she wants to be there when I do it.
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