Lo's Inquisition
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Very nicely put Jim.
“If you trust in yourself, and believe in your dreams, and follow your star. . . you'll still get beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren't so lazy.”
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Jim you have my number, the Domestic Violence was real. I had my Ex arrested on July 17, 2003 for assault because he was beating my head into a filing cabinet, and bloodied my nose, etc. I trust to give you his real name and you can search the public records for his police file.
If you'd rather not: Garaelb and AndyH were kind enough to speak to me as friends about it, and they know the whole story.
If you'd rather not: Garaelb and AndyH were kind enough to speak to me as friends about it, and they know the whole story.
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I am glad you took it to the police. However, do you think that replaying it for all and sundry is helping?
What will this achieve?
What will this achieve?
Bah!
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After nine years of stalking, it's rather cathartic.
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LoCa, I don't personally find anything disbeleivable about your claims regarding domestic violence.
But what on earth has that got to do with perpetuating this thread? What on earth has it got to do with making wild, incendiary, and unsubstantiated accusations against third parties that they don't care about domestic violence? (or even worse; that they want to smack their wife around; which is an accusation that you made last night)
If the purpose of keeping this going is to convince people that you were the victim of domestic violence, look, you've given it your best shot. People are going to believe it or not. But if somebody doesn't believe you, that is in no way shape or form evidence that they "don't care" about domestic violence. Those accusations are completely uncalled for.
If the purpose of perpetuating this is to gather some sort of information for an "investigator" again, what's the point? The only involved party posting anything that could be conceivably relevant to that is you. You could just as easily type out what you want that investigator to have in a Word document and send it to them. There is nothing gained by prolonging this thread that couldn't be just as easily achieved by doing that.
So if the reason for prolonging this can't be because keeping it going will convince people who don't believe you that you were in fact the victim of domestic violence, and it can't be that keeping it going will some how unearth useful information for some sort of "investigation" then the one and only reason for keeping this going that we are left with is attention for attention's sake.
You've already made pretty clear that attention seeking is driving this, when you made that comment about "there's no such thing as bad publicity"...
I tried to point out to you then, (and I'll do so again now) that in this context, you're wrong about that. You're not promoting a circus, (Well, maybe you are). You may personally not care whether the attention you get is negative or positive, but you should know that when you take that position you are saying that you don't care what anyone thinks of you, and that encourages people to think badly of you. (And it undermines your credibility.)
You were able to demonstrate in the past that you perfectly capable of garnering positive attention from people, not just the "can't turn away from the train wreck variety" that you've sunk to pursuing here.
You should get back to that, and drop this crap. If you're not going to do that, and, as your perpetuating this thread inescapably suggests, you don't care what kind of attention you get just so long as you get attention, please be aware that the negative attention carries a price in terms of what people think of you, and their openness to believing you.
But what on earth has that got to do with perpetuating this thread? What on earth has it got to do with making wild, incendiary, and unsubstantiated accusations against third parties that they don't care about domestic violence? (or even worse; that they want to smack their wife around; which is an accusation that you made last night)
If the purpose of keeping this going is to convince people that you were the victim of domestic violence, look, you've given it your best shot. People are going to believe it or not. But if somebody doesn't believe you, that is in no way shape or form evidence that they "don't care" about domestic violence. Those accusations are completely uncalled for.
If the purpose of perpetuating this is to gather some sort of information for an "investigator" again, what's the point? The only involved party posting anything that could be conceivably relevant to that is you. You could just as easily type out what you want that investigator to have in a Word document and send it to them. There is nothing gained by prolonging this thread that couldn't be just as easily achieved by doing that.
So if the reason for prolonging this can't be because keeping it going will convince people who don't believe you that you were in fact the victim of domestic violence, and it can't be that keeping it going will some how unearth useful information for some sort of "investigation" then the one and only reason for keeping this going that we are left with is attention for attention's sake.
You've already made pretty clear that attention seeking is driving this, when you made that comment about "there's no such thing as bad publicity"...
I tried to point out to you then, (and I'll do so again now) that in this context, you're wrong about that. You're not promoting a circus, (Well, maybe you are). You may personally not care whether the attention you get is negative or positive, but you should know that when you take that position you are saying that you don't care what anyone thinks of you, and that encourages people to think badly of you. (And it undermines your credibility.)
You were able to demonstrate in the past that you perfectly capable of garnering positive attention from people, not just the "can't turn away from the train wreck variety" that you've sunk to pursuing here.
You should get back to that, and drop this crap. If you're not going to do that, and, as your perpetuating this thread inescapably suggests, you don't care what kind of attention you get just so long as you get attention, please be aware that the negative attention carries a price in terms of what people think of you, and their openness to believing you.
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Okay, well if all this is about venting, then I would please ask that you confine it to this thread.After nine years of stalking, it's rather cathartic.
And I still don't see why venting about your relationship with your ex, or even your resentments towards PMSP justifies your making claims and accusations against third parties.
What that really looks like is, "Well if I just vent, I wont get much response, but if I start hurling accusations against people they'll respond, and that will create a back and forth that will in turn will gather more attention than just venting would."
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Is the filing cabinet okay?loCAtek wrote:Jim you have my number, the Domestic Violence was real. I had my Ex arrested on July 17, 2003 for assault because he was beating my head into a filing cabinet....
Sorry, Lo...cheap shot.
e-wood.........btdt
eta: again,not making light of your injuries or the bad place you were in.
sorry.
Your collective inability to acknowledge this obvious truth makes you all look like fools.
yrs,
rubato
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This thread is a perfect example of how trolling works.
People who are usually reasonable get drawn in to a drama created by a troll and think that reasoning with the troll will accomplish something.
You all know better.
The best way to stop the troll is to quit responding.
Do I really need to tell you that?
People who are usually reasonable get drawn in to a drama created by a troll and think that reasoning with the troll will accomplish something.
You all know better.
The best way to stop the troll is to quit responding.
Do I really need to tell you that?
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Actually, I don't.....I lost it through my own forgetfulness.loCAtek wrote:You have my number too, Dales
I used to have LJ's too.
Your collective inability to acknowledge this obvious truth makes you all look like fools.
yrs,
rubato
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Word to the wise Dales, don't get it again...
And I don't mean Jim's number...
I see from above that Gar and Andy H have been victims of Lo's desperate need to broadcast her life failures, is there anyone associated with Plan B or the CSB who hasn't?
Does anyone else here find it "interesting" that despite how bad her ex was to her; "beating my head into a filing cabinet, and bloodied my nose, etc," it was HIM that left Her, and seems to have also been the one that the divorce proceedings awarded the settlement to best.
And I don't mean Jim's number...
I see from above that Gar and Andy H have been victims of Lo's desperate need to broadcast her life failures, is there anyone associated with Plan B or the CSB who hasn't?
Does anyone else here find it "interesting" that despite how bad her ex was to her; "beating my head into a filing cabinet, and bloodied my nose, etc," it was HIM that left Her, and seems to have also been the one that the divorce proceedings awarded the settlement to best.
“If you trust in yourself, and believe in your dreams, and follow your star. . . you'll still get beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren't so lazy.”
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Very unprofessional Gob, I told you why; or otherwise explain why you think I deserved it.
Why would any person deserve beating?
Why would any person deserve beating?
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Oh fuck off you hopeless case.
What is "unprofessional"?
Where has anyone said anyone deserves a beating, you fucking moron.
Your attempts to garner pity are backfiring each and every time, grow up.
What is "unprofessional"?
Where has anyone said anyone deserves a beating, you fucking moron.
Your attempts to garner pity are backfiring each and every time, grow up.
“If you trust in yourself, and believe in your dreams, and follow your star. . . you'll still get beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren't so lazy.”
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Didn't you realise Gob? This forum counts as part of your job...
Why is it that when Miley Cyrus gets naked and licks a hammer it's 'art' and 'edgy' but when I do it I'm 'drunk' and 'banned from the hardware store'?
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I have a solution to this, just ignore this thread. Why is everyone so intent on responding to someone who has already told you she is only looking for attention, negative or positive? You are just feeding into it. 
I expect to go straight to hell...........at least I won't have to spend time making new friends.
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It is unprofessional to psycho-babble, and a violation of confidence.
Exactly, Sean.
Exactly, Sean.
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Oh wow...
Just, wow...
Just, wow...
Why is it that when Miley Cyrus gets naked and licks a hammer it's 'art' and 'edgy' but when I do it I'm 'drunk' and 'banned from the hardware store'?
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Miles, you are of course right, but it's come this far now. I would heartily recommend that others who are not a target of Lo's obsessions stay out of it, I do not think anyone else will gain at all. Unless they enjoy rubbernecking car crashes or the like!Miles wrote:I have a solution to this, just ignore this thread. Why is everyone so intent on responding to someone who has already told you she is only looking for attention, negative or positive? You are just feeding into it.
As for me, well, you know me old son, you can treat me as you see fit, but attack my wife or daughter, with lies and spite, or whatever, and you're going to get a whole world of pain off me.
“If you trust in yourself, and believe in your dreams, and follow your star. . . you'll still get beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren't so lazy.”
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Oh dear, stuck to welding moron, you're less likely to embarrass yourself then. And you have the added bonus of wearing a welding mask.loCAtek wrote:It is unprofessional to psycho-babble, and a violation of confidence.
Care to try to substantiate or justify any of that laughable shit?
“If you trust in yourself, and believe in your dreams, and follow your star. . . you'll still get beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren't so lazy.”