Well, yes, seeing a man in the title role of
Sophie's Choice would almost certainly be less than satisfying. But seeing Meryl Streep in the title role of
Gandhi or
Amadeus wouldn't be my idea of a good time either. (Except maybe on
Saturday Night Live or some such.)
But that is simply because the person doing the acting does not line up with the character being portrayed. I mean, John Wayne wasn't exactly a model of realism as Ghengis Khan, but I don't think that we should start giving out an Oscar to the "best Caucasion in an Asian role".
(And, yes, "dominatrix is still used. But it seems to me so obviously a matter of affectation that I thought I'd let it pass unremarked.)
I don't hear women saying "I am a man", so why say "I am an actor"?
And that is rather the point. One often hears women saying "I am a human being." Which is the core meaning of "actor": a human being who acts.
Distinguishing between "actors" and "actresses" serves no purpose that I can see other than to elevate the sex of the performer -- be it male or female; this cuts both ways -- to a matter of at least equal significance as the acting. I fail to see how that is in any way good.
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By the way, I would love to see the men and women compete against each other in singles tennis. (And I am a hardcore tennis fan:
dgs49 observes that one must be a real fan to watch a five-set match; I just finished watching eight matches in two days.) I would like to see a tournament whose organizers bring together the sixty-four highest-ranking players of each sex, draw their names randomly for the first-round draw, and go from there.
And before anyone brings up tennis's so-called "Battle of the Sexes," be aware of the actual results. Bobby Riggs beat Margaret Court, Billie Jean King beat Bobby Riggs (which, considering that she was 26 years younger than he, does not strike me as among her great achivements), and the third match contemplated to involve Bobby Riggs was never played. So the "Battle" involving Riggs was a draw.
A third match, not involving Riggs, was played between Jimmy Connors and Martina Navratilova. The rules were rigged against Connors: He was allowed only one serve per point, whereas Navratilova was allowed the customary two; and she was allowed to hit into part of the doubles alley, whereas he was not.
He still beat her in straight sets, 7-5, 6-2. I doubt that I am going out too far on a limb by suggesting that if the rules had been fair, he would have crushed her -- something more like 6-1, 6-0.
I think that in today's game, the results would not look like that. I still think that, overall, the men would win. Power has become increasingly important over the years, and the men are still more powerful than the women. (For example, although the reported numbers vary somewhat, the fastest serve by a man is still some 25 mph faster than the fastest serve by a woman.)
But the overlap is significant: Venus Williams can still crank out serves as powerful as those of many of the top-ranked men, and many of the women can hold their own (or close enough -- the difference between 120 mph and 125 mph matters nowhere near as much as does precise placement) with many of the men.
Moreover, it seems to me that the women have been getting more powerful at a faster rate than have the men. They started well behind, and they have yet to catch up entirely, but they're getting closer all the time.
Also, the rise of the importance of power has been slowing lately. Finesse is regaining currency. Which I think is a fine thing. One never knows in advance, obviously, how the matches will go -- how many people would have picked Schiavone vs. Kuznetsova as the match of the tournament (thus far) at the Australian Open? -- but if I had to pick, at the beginning of the year, the only day of tennis I could watch, I would choose women's quarterfinals day at the French Open.
Of course, I would be pleased if we made them all go back to wooden rackets.
Pardon me whilst I wet my quill ....