Plan B Forum

loCAtek wrote:So, PMSP you don't know the answers?

Of course not. Delores Hidalgo, spelled Dolores Hidalgo, is in México; where my Ex has never gone, and nowhere near San Jose, CA.


San Jose Stonehenge is where every local native has gone; they can't avoid it. It is our freeway cloverleaf, completed in the 70's. You won't find that on the net, as that's not its offical name. We called it that, because for a few years, it couldn't be funded and stood as concrete pylons in a big circle doing nothing. If you had grown up here as you had said; You'd know that.
If you were one of the few locals, who didn't know that; you could have asked my Ex - I've told him this trivia, personally.

My Ex is also familiar with Mugwump as his name for ...?

Why don't you ask him?
...

What was my nickname for him? I haven't uttered that to anyone else.

Mugwump was part of the mnemonic for his MX-6 licences plate
You said "Fred", I say "Cat Toy"
And he actually did go to TJ with shipmates when he was at Coronado. You knew that, right? The trip to Ensenada was when I took him on a cruise last year.

I guess that your stalker status can be reinstated PMSP...

Personally I wouldn't have bothered with her games but good for you anyway!

I'm puzzled. I couldn't find the thread this comes from.

Surely our new poster PMSP wouldn't post on board the contents of a PM or email without provocation?

That would be a lot like stalking.

I must misunderstand - right, PMSP?

This is what you call, "inside baseball"....

If you were one of the few locals, who didn't know that; you could have asked my Ex - I've told him this trivia, personally.

Just a guess, but maybe it wasn't important enough for her to ask?

On the other hand LoCa, she referred to The Gilroy Garlic Festival as "a local garlic festival"...

Seems to me that someone who was trying to set up some sort of false identity by googling would have referred to it by it's proper name....

And outside of No Cal, it's not that well known an event anyway....


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* new image posted to replace the one yanked by the image nazis.

If as BSG suggests may be the case, this came from a PM, that's not cricket....

(By which I don't mean, "that's not boring" I mean "that's not fair")

PMSP you may not be aware of this, but it is considered very bad board etiquette to quote off-board communications with another poster on the board without that poster's permission.

Those questions were in another thread.

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Thanks Sue! I'm not sure how to do that. I was just trying to move the discussion out of Springsteen.

I see - I hadn't read that far in the thread.

g-faw ...I requested HIS nickname, not a nic for a just a part of him. ~titter
...but cool, cool, I believe you are, who you say you are. Thx Mux!

Sure, I know he likes to go to strip clubs, and adult entertainment venues; he still did that up here in the valley, as often as once a week.
Conversely, when I was stationed in San Diego, I'd go to the museums and art festivals...
During our marriage, I thought he only cheated on me with strippers, but most guys don't tell thier wives flat out that they're having affairs with SoCal girls. Thanks for admitting that, but it's not surprising, lIke I said- I just wish you'd gotten rid of him for me, a lot sooner.

As said to him eye-to-eye at our very last FTF exchange;

He said: 'I could never stay with you; you're just not cultured.'

I snorted and retorted: 'Yeah right, all those lap dances were such high culture.'

loCAtek wrote:
During our marriage, I thought he only cheated on me with strippers, but most guys don't tell thier wives flat out that they're having affairs with SoCal girls.

One can only wonder why....

During our marriage, I thought he only cheated on me with strippers

You were cool with that?

Wow, what a wonderful wife....

"It's okay hon'....I don't care if you cheat on me, so long as it's only with strippers..."



(Sadly, I seriously doubt that Lady Kelly would buy into that enlightened and progressive point of view...)

Hey, he was a sailor... I was true, that's what mattered to me.


Tip 'O de Iceberg

LJ, my knowing about 'his hobby' took time, as PMPS said; his shenanigans usually took place out of town.

However, the confirmation of his dalliance came whilst I was out of town; out of state and on military deployment in 2002: where I recieved a call that he had been involved in a serious car accident ...while driving one of these strippers home. [You do the math = cheater]
...and no, I wasn't okay with it.

However, He was injured; taking care of the foster son came first and I was willing to wait untill I returned home from my service to deal with it; which like I've said elsewhere; turned out to be a complete waste of time.

No wait, it did get him outta my life ...kinda. As you see, I'm still working on that.

Lo, to truly eradicate someone from your life you'd best best to not question those who are with that person now.

Juss sayin'

Then they'd best not question/nor stalk me; I'll give them the truth as an answer;

If the truth is; "the person I ussed to be married to was screwing whores while we were married," then that's not exactly the kind of thing that most of us would want to broadcast. At all. In any way.

loCAtek wrote:Then they'd best not question/nor stalk me; I'll give them the truth as an answer;

From my perspective, it doesn't look like they are.

There seems to be only one party questioning here and it wasn't them.

As for stalking, I haven't seen any of that either, unless that picture of yours is the start of a stalking campaign?

So?

You don't want to be questioned or stalked, but you have no issue with questioning or stalking.


Noted.