My mother used to sing the refrain of the song to her babies when very little. Probably a lot of mothers of her generation did - the song was written in the late 30s and recorded first in 1940, I believe. I’m sure there are many other people who grew up with mentally ill mothers like I did who consider the song pretty dark, because of the weird kind of love associated with it.
Ironically in my travels - a prosecutor training on sexual assault crimes prosecution in Savannah, GA - I found a wonderful street artist and bought this piece from her, which hangs on my bedroom wall. It reminds me daily of the many facets of ‘love.’ When I attended that training the active case I workshopped in clinicals was of an 8 year old victim whose stepfather had been raping her for two years. (Yeah, I come by my misanthropy honestly.)
Don’t know why some attachments post sideways, but you get the picture.
Re: Has this song always been so dark?
Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2022 1:33 pm
by Crackpot
What I have seen online had a different last line to the second verse and don’t have the 3rd verse all together. I don’t know if that is selective edit vs traditional lyrics or an “innovation” on the part of this band who do tend to have their lyrics slant toward the darker side of things.
Re: Has this song always been so dark?
Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2022 2:15 pm
by ex-khobar Andy
Don't say I don't never give you nothing.
Re: Has this song always been so dark?
Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2022 2:33 pm
by Big RR
I always thought the lyrics were much darker than the way it was ordinarily sung, about an unrequited (or maybe something more sinister)-dreams of holding her in his arms, and warnings of her shattering his dreams if she left. Not certain of its background, but I think it must be based in those sort of blues songs with happy tempos, kind of like the Beatles Run for Your Life ("Well, I'd rather see you dead, little girl, Than to be with another man, You better keep your head, little girl, Or I won't know where I am"--years ago, when I used to sing at weddings, I recall doing this and always thought it was strange for such an occassion). It's not uncommon in folk and blues music
Re: Has this song always been so dark?
Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2022 2:36 pm
by BoSoxGal
Awww, you’re a ray of sunshine Andy!
BigRR check out the link I posted for background on the song and links within to several versions, including the original.
Re: Has this song always been so dark?
Posted: Tue Feb 08, 2022 3:55 pm
by Burning Petard
I first knew it as a performance by Gene Autry. It was bleak, or sunny, depending on the perspective of the listener.
snailgate.
Re: Has this song always been so dark?
Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2022 5:47 pm
by Sue U
I honestly never listened to the lyrics of this song (or most songs, for that matter). But man, nothing like playing it in a minor key to make it sound grim!
Re: Has this song always been so dark?
Posted: Sun Feb 13, 2022 2:45 pm
by Bicycle Bill
My cousin sent me this from her Facebook feed, and I felt it needed to be shared in this thread ....