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Just stop it!

Posted: Sat Jul 20, 2013 9:43 pm
by Gob
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A FURIOUS husband has taken public revenge on his wife's admirer in an unlikely place -- his rival's garage door.

A Reddit user with the screen name igotskraped posted a photo of a garage attached to a house in Illinois, tagged with a very clear message in red spray paint: "Don't e-mail my wife!!!!"

The scorned spouse added on the smaller side entrance: "Stop now".

The images were shared a month ago. There has been no update on this very public love triangle

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Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Sun Jul 21, 2013 3:08 pm
by Miles
I would be more inclined to administering a sound ass kicking myself. THAT is a good attention getter. :ok

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Sun Jul 21, 2013 5:00 pm
by Scooter
It always amazes me when the person who has been cheated on directs their anger at the other man/woman instead of at his/her spouse, which is where the blame belongs. The other person does not owe you loyalty or anything else, and who knows what they may or may not have been told about your relationship.

Antics such as the above accomplish nothing, unless the other person is also married to someone else, in which case all you have done is to cause another innocent spouse to suffer as much as you.

Hope it feels worth it.

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Sun Jul 21, 2013 6:25 pm
by Lord Jim
The thing that struck me about this particular form of "message sending" is that to the average person driving by, it doesn't look like a message to the guy who owns the house...

It looks like a message being sent by the owner of the house to the entire community regarding emails being sent to his wife....

Like he's got a problem with so many guys sending emails to his wife, that he felt the need to turn the front of his house into a billboard to try and put a stop to it.... :D

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Sun Jul 21, 2013 9:06 pm
by Crackpot
Uhh what evidence is there that the wife reciprocated? This just as easily could be a case of a stalker as a "love triangle"

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 1:52 am
by Jarlaxle
The idiot that did this needs to be charged for vandalism and required to repair the damage, plus should be fined 10x the repair cost.

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 3:25 am
by Scooter
He should be forced to walk around wearing a sandwich board that says, "I'm not man enough to satisfy my wife" in front of his own place of employment.

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 3:31 am
by Scooter
Crackpot wrote:Uhh what evidence is there that the wife reciprocated? This just as easily could be a case of a stalker as a "love triangle"
Who gave him her email address in the first place?

If his emails are that persistent and unwelcome, why hasn't he long since been blocked?

Why hasn't she launched a complaint with his ISP and/or email provider that he is using his account to engage in a pattern of harassment against her?

Her husband would not have needed to go to such extremes had she done one of a number of very simple things to stop receiving his emails. So they obviously weren't all that unwelcome to her, at any rate.

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 11:17 am
by Crackpot
Never heard of work e-mails? Never occur to you that the wife may be afraid to act because it may cost her job?

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 11:44 am
by Scooter
So someone at work is sexually harassing her, and it's going to cost her job if she reports it through official channels? But it won't cost her job if her husband tries to publicly shame the guy by spray painting the entire side of his house? Oh yeah, that makes all kinds of sense.

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 3:47 pm
by oldr_n_wsr
Not enough details to figure out who/what/where is happening other than somone painted this on someones garage doors.

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 4:31 pm
by Guinevere
oldr_n_wsr wrote:Not enough details to figure out who/what/where is happening other than somone painted this on someones garage doors.
Not enough *facts.* But close enough.

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 6:02 pm
by Crackpot
Scooter wrote:So someone at work is sexually harassing her, and it's going to cost her job if she reports it through official channels? But it won't cost her job if her husband tries to publicly shame the guy by spray painting the entire side of his house? Oh yeah, that makes all kinds of sense.
So you're assuming she has complete control over her husband ? If that was the case she should have made him satisfy her :roll:

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 6:20 pm
by dales
Some women are NEVER satisfied. :x

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 6:50 pm
by Scooter
I'm saying that you are grasping at some pretty thin straws to attempt to justify why someone who is receiving unwelcome emails would be so utterly powerless to stop it.

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 7:21 pm
by Crackpot
Perception does not equal reality. thank god for that because I'd hat to live in your world

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 8:34 pm
by Scooter
I live in a world where cheating and would-be cheating spouses are at least 1000 times more common than stalkers. I don't apologize for not grasping at the 1 in 1000 chance as being the most likely scenario in this case.

It's not as if it would have made the husband's behaviour in any way justifiable even if it were so.

Re: Just stop it!

Posted: Mon Jul 22, 2013 9:09 pm
by Gob
dales wrote:Some women are NEVER satisfied. :x
Fixed.