Here you go Lo...

[loCAtek]

I think you kinda resent my taking positive steps without you?

As stated, I don't need you: deal with it.

[The Hen]

You asked for advice as you couldn't afford therapy.

I have your emails, darling.

I don't understand your question. I have painted nothing?

[The Hen]

Below.

[The Hen]

I think you kinda resent my taking positive steps without you?

As stated, I don't need you: deal with it.

I know you don't need me. You need professional help but you can't afford it. Your childhood issues are immense.

However, are you going to continue to try and be the Board's troll, or are you going to go back to being yourself?

[loCAtek]

What eighth time? i didn't ask for your advice, I said, 'Don't try to fix me' re-read as necessary and carry on.

I'm sorry, I don't need you now; quit pushing yourself on me and live your own life.

[The Hen]

I have your emails Lo.

You specifically started the whole she-bang with how you couldn't afford proper therapy and wanted my advice.

I can post them all in their entirety when I get home if you like.

I can post them in their entirety even if you DON'T like.

You saying the opposite now from how it all started will not change what you have written.

Now, that I have apologised for sending you a PM after 3 months worth of baiting whilst I was recovering from surgery, are YOU going to stop being the Board's troll?

[loCAtek]

Yea, like last year, the emails are old news.

That's too bad you need control, more than you need the ethics of trust within a friendship; otherwise it stagnates it. ThX for proving me right, that you can't be trusted, and I definitely don't need a controlling relationship like that. I've moved beyond our obsolete friendship, so should you.

[The Hen]

To remind you of what you requested from me so you can stop that little Lo lie:

Long story short, I'd like some input on relationships since .... [snip]

I don't need to control you at all Lo. YOU need to control yourself.

Just DONT lie when you say you didn't request my input. You did.

Now please fix yourself ... quickly.

Peace from me to you.

[loCAtek]

Let's see if you'll listen for the ninth time: (How's that for repetition?) Don't try to fix me.

I'll be specific now, this now - not then, no advice, no therapy, no crutches. Not needed, I can't fill your need to be needed; you'll have to find control elsewhere. I'm sure somebody else needs you else where; go there now.

[The Hen]

Let's see if you'll listen for the ninth time: (How's that for repetition?) Don't try to fix me.

I haven't been Lo. You however have been stating that you never asked for my help. You did and you did nothing. Your choice of course.

I'll be specific now, this now - not then, no advice, no therapy, no crutches. Not needed, I can't fill your need to be needed; you'll have to find control elsewhere. I'm sure somebody else needs you else where; go there now.

I have no need to be needed by you Lo.

This thread started because of your trollish behaviour on the Board.

To show that I was willing to move on, I apologised to you.

You haven't accepted that apology. I accept that you find such courtesies difficult.

Still, the record will show that I tried to move forward with you, but you were not willing to take that step.

So be it.

Enjoy your life. I hope you conquer your demons.

Cheers for the attempt sean.

[loCAtek]

LOL cool, I'm sure not, you chase me for my brown cuteness alone

I got an apology this time, the first in eight or so times I told you not to try to fix me.
So I thank you Hen, as stated, I hope I can trust you this time.

Otherwise, no big deal, 'eh?

[The Hen]

I apologised at the beginning of this thread which was started after sean got the poops with your trolling.

You had ignored it and discussed it with others?

It was no big deal at all Lo. As I am sure it won't be a big deal for you to stop your trollish vendetta that others have noted.



Edited a long time after to add ...

Oh I see. Edting your posts after mine have been made?

I wish you wouldn't do that. I see nothing cute in that at all no matter what colour you are. : )

[loCAtek]

Well, if you've stopped 'fixing me' and mean your apology, after eight times I tried to tell you not to fix me. I'm not ignoring, but waiting: are you going to fulfill your promise this time ?


Always with hope, I can trust you, some day.

[The Hen]

I fail to see where you think I have been trying to 'fix you' or 'control you' once let alone numerous times. It hasn't happened.

I have apologised for sending you an PM raising old issues with you after falling for your baiting of my husband and your chasing of me over the Malware issue whilst I was in hospital directly after my operation.

I really shouldn't have sent the PM.

But regaining your trust? I certainly do not want it.

[Sean]

Fuck me!

Lo, my theory was, it seems, correct. You are indeed an ungrateful twat!
You asked for advice and have since tried to turn the offered advice into some bullshit about Hen trying to 'control' you and 'fix' you.

That you are unable to take the requested advice in the spirit it was offered is YOUR problem, nobody elses. It does speak volumes about you as a person and indeed as an attention seeking missile.
You haven't got the grace to accept Hen's apology but instead prefer to bleat on ad nauseum.

Rather than Hen regaining your trust I think it's you that needs to change things before the entire fucking membership here decides that you are no longer somebody they wish to interact with.

You'll find this a very lonely place if the day comes when everybody has you on ignore...

The choice is yours.

[rubato]

Fuck me!
...
You asked for advice and have since tried to turn the offered advice into some bullshit about Hen trying to 'control' you and 'fix' you.

.... "

There's the problem right there. Never ask for something so valueless that people are trying to give it away all the time; like advice. If it was GOOD for you do you think it would be called ad-VICE?


If people are trying to get rid of it, whatever it is, has a negative value and you should give them a bill for taking it off their hands.


yrs
rubato

[loCAtek]

LOL last year I was grateful. It seems now she doesn't want my gratitude but my indebtedness to her. That control technique is called trying to foster dependency. That's too bad, she didn't used to be so Gwen-ish, that I really don't need.

[MajGenl.Meade]

Oh get a room all of you. Oh wait............


No LJ that avatar isn't me. Yes LJ that avatar WAS me. Wish I could have kept the waist. The hat? Wasn't mine anyway.

Meade

[Rick]

OK the next riddle is what year?

Sean is taking bids...

[BoSoxGal]

loCA,

It was only a few weeks back that you were whining to me about Hen and Gob and it was quite clear to me that you were very upset about losing/damaging that friendship.

Now you proclaim repeatedly that you're 'over it' and don't want their friendship.

Methinks you doth protest too much.

Please, if you are really over it, just STFU about it. NOW. You apparently have no perspective on what an ass you are making of yourself with the vendetta you've been pursuing against them both across threads of all manner, and now with your posts in this thread. I've about lost ALL respect for you - though I'm sure that you're now 'over me' too, and don't give a shit.

So, just DISENGAGE, already!