Lord Jim wrote:I have to agree with Hen; this is certainly not the first time that LoCa hasn't posted for one day, I wouldn't draw any conclusion from that...
This mediation idea was hers; why would she want to back away from it?
If she comes on the board and starts posting about other things and ignoring this, then you'd have a point...
Hmmm. She came onto the Board and has started posting about other threads and has ignored the mediation she wanted.
I concur. Seriously. Lo, you brought this about now follow through. if it is too much I would understand however, if you choose not to reospond the last shred of credibility that you have with honest bolsters will be gone...
All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.
Keep posting in other threads Lo? ... Tick tock...
You are starting to remind me of the little kid in tthe middle the road that covers his eyes and puts his hands out hoping that the bus is not about to run him down.
Check yourself or wreck yourself. Ask yourself WWADD? Aka, what would Alpha Dog do?
Man up ChicA! Get it done!
All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.
Fine. Have it your way. But I do not want to hear one fucking word of whining.
Listen to me. When your friends do back flips to support you and you go out of your way to throw them under the bus ?? Then you need to ask yourself some hard, soul searching questions.
Frankly, I'm not sure what your agenda is here. however I will stand by any decision made by management.
Fuck All this Bulllshit for the LAST TIME. You are on your own when you attempt to continue this vendetta or whatever you fucking call it.
I am sick to death of it. And I know for a fact.that I am not the only one.
Stop it!
All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.
Andrew, my throw away remark that Lo would be using as evidence of me suffering from "diggaphobia" would have been contained in a story I gave relating to my decision to lose my virginity at the first reasonable opportunity.*
The story would have related to the dreams, thoughts and "fears" of a hormone-ravage teenage 'woman'. I still remember these 30 odd years later, that I was more than willing to lose my virginity as soon as possible as I had a strong inkling that I was going to thoroughly enjoy sex over the course of my life. I was looking forward to starting as soon as possible.
From memory, the age I was having these thoughts of my mortality coupled with the possibility of ending my mortality before I had ever had a sexual partner .... was around the age of 15 1/2.
This was just before I got together with the boy I was to willingly end my virginity with. I recall he was similarly relieved to lose his at the same time.
From talking with others throughout the years, I do not believe I am alone with those thoughts of "What if I die a virgin?". It seems to have been a common thought that has even crossed oceans.
* As the entire Board is now aware, my first reasonable opportunity to lose my virginity occurred at 15 years and 350 days. With my boyfriend. Not nine years of age.
Ok I have asked RB to set up a separate sub forum for us for this. I have been trying but am stymied because of a dodgy tethered Internet connection and using my iPad as I'm on holiday.
Daisy _ Couldnt find where you asked me lol however I saw this post so have gone ahead and set up a subforum as requested under General Stuff & Tabloids link here: viewforum.php?f=14 hopefully the permissions are set so as to ensure that its read only access to all but admins, The Hen & LoCatek, if the permissions haven't "taken" then I trust that all members other than you 3 will refrain from posting in that forum - any posts made that are not by Daisy, Hen or Loca WILL be removed.
If you can keep your head while those around you are losing theirs, you may have misjudged the situation.
How long do you wish to take before you are able to post your grievance in a mediation you requested?
Is this something that you were planning to try and drag out an long as possible seeing you have continued to make unsubstantiated claims about my childhood?
What she was after was trying to get you to start communicating with her privately again. The "mediation" was nothing but a pretext for that. When she was offered mediation in public, in a way that she couldn't turn down without looking completely stupid, she was flummoxed.
"The dildo of consequence rarely comes lubed." -- Eileen Rose
“If you trust in yourself, and believe in your dreams, and follow your star. . . you'll still get beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren't so lazy.”
