Won't be about for a bit
Won't be about for a bit
Emergency trip back to the UK, my mother has been given only days to live, cancer.
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I hate cancer. It's unfair. I'm very sad to hear about your mother. Have a safe trip and be well.
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Gob, so sorry. That's surely not the type of news you need to hear but I get a sense that it was also no surprise. Regardless, a tough road lies ahead for all involved. You are in my thoughts. Peace be with you.Gob wrote:Emergency trip back to the UK, my mother has been given only days to live, cancer.

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Sorry Gob. Went through it in 2013. My heart is with you.
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So sorry to hear it, Gob. Wishing you strength and serenity for the days ahead.
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I hope they are wrong. Safe travels to you and peace to you both.
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Sorry to hear this.
You and your family are in my prayers gob.
You and your family are in my prayers gob.
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Many thanks people.
I fly out tomorrow night, due to security restrictions there is a two day wait before you can book and board an international flight now.
The doctors sent her home from hospital, telling my sister she had 'a few days" left so I hop she's still there when I get back.
Support and offers of help from UK friends (places to stay, offers of cars, etc,) has been heartening and almost overwhelming.
I'm a bit in limbo now.
I fly out tomorrow night, due to security restrictions there is a two day wait before you can book and board an international flight now.
The doctors sent her home from hospital, telling my sister she had 'a few days" left so I hop she's still there when I get back.
Support and offers of help from UK friends (places to stay, offers of cars, etc,) has been heartening and almost overwhelming.
I'm a bit in limbo now.
“If you trust in yourself, and believe in your dreams, and follow your star. . . you'll still get beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren't so lazy.”
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That sucks.there is a two day wait before you can book and board an international flight now.
Prayers are coming your way. And over to the UK too.
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I hope you get there in time to say goodbye to your mum and that her passing is peaceful & as painless as possible. 
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I just saw this thread.
So sorry to hear this, (I lost my mother to cancer)
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
So sorry to hear this, (I lost my mother to cancer)
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



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sorry man.....
....I ll always remember that picture you captured and posted of her.....
wes
....I ll always remember that picture you captured and posted of her.....
wes
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I'm so sorry to hear this, Gob. Big hugs, and safe travels.
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That.BoSoxGal wrote:I hope you get there in time to say goodbye to your mum and that her passing is peaceful & as painless as possible.
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Here now. Mother is still with us, but she's obviously on the brink. I'm having a beer in the pub her and my dad used to drink in as a nostalgia trip. Will look in when the dust settles.
“If you trust in yourself, and believe in your dreams, and follow your star. . . you'll still get beaten by people who spent their time working hard and learning things and weren't so lazy.”
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There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under the heavens. Peace.
and a season for every activity under the heavens. Peace.

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I am just noticing this now. My thoughts are with all of your family.
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Glad you made it in time; hope she is not so far gone that she doesn't recognize the fact you are there.Gob wrote:Here now. Mother is still with us, but she's obviously on the brink. I'm having a beer in the pub her and my dad used to drink in as a nostalgia trip. Will look in when the dust settles.
Peace be on the both of you, bro.
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Leun a sylli yw ow skath bargesi
Above by way of comic relief.
God bless
Above by way of comic relief.
God bless
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So sorry to hear this mate. We're all thinking of you here.
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