End of an Era

Food, recipes, fashion, sport, education, exercise, sexuality, travel.
Post Reply
User avatar
Bicycle Bill
Posts: 9745
Joined: Thu Dec 03, 2015 1:10 pm
Location: Living in a suburb of Berkeley on the Prairie along with my Yellow Rose of Texas

End of an Era

Post by Bicycle Bill »

https://www.yahoo.com/news/hugh-hefner- ... 14304.html

Image
Proof that you  **COULD**  have your cake and eat it too.
Image
-"BB"-
Yes, I suppose I could agree with you ... but then we'd both be wrong, wouldn't we?

User avatar
BoSoxGal
Posts: 19708
Joined: Tue Apr 06, 2010 10:36 pm
Location: The Heart of Red Sox Nation

Re: End of an Era

Post by BoSoxGal »

He married a woman 60 years his junior in 2012? Even at 86 he hadn't discovered the value of real love? That's kind of sad, I think. I don't discount the validity of some May-December romances, but I just don't buy a 26 year old knockout marrying a shriveled 86-year-old purely for love . . . unless he's fabulously wealthy and famous.

Anyway, he did a lot to open up America's mind to free expression of sexuality and that's not a terrible thing - but it seems to me there was a lot of traditional sexism involved in all things Playboy, even when the daughter was at the helm, so there's that, too.

I liked the comment that said, 'there's one guy you can't say went to a better place' - I took that to mean not that he went to hell, but that heaven can't beat the Playboy Mansion.
For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
~ Carl Sagan

User avatar
datsunaholic
Posts: 2558
Joined: Sun Dec 13, 2015 12:53 am
Location: The Wet Coast

Re: End of an Era

Post by datsunaholic »

As of right now, I've had 5 of my FB friends post tributes or RIP, etc to their statuses I've seen for Hugh Hefner, which showed up in my newsfeed.

The first 3 were women. I found that interesting.
Death is Nature's way of telling you to slow down.

Big RR
Posts: 14750
Joined: Thu Apr 15, 2010 9:47 pm

Re: End of an Era

Post by Big RR »

I always had a grudging respect for Hefner--sure he was a sexist and set in his ways, but he did it with a style worthy of James Bond. And as BSG said, he did a lot to open up American's minds to sexuality and its free expression, and he did it with relish, attacking the old conventions as he saw fit. Leave the true porn to Larry Flint and the more mainstream shocks to Bob Guccione, it always seemed to me that Hefner was just a guy who enjoyed having fun and doing things his way--and he lived until with that lifestyle--good for him.

You're right, I doubt he can go to a better place.

rubato
Posts: 14245
Joined: Sun May 09, 2010 10:14 pm

Re: End of an Era

Post by rubato »

He went on SNL one time and had a really sharp self-effacing sense of humor.

He was interviewed on NPR and told the story that it all began when he asked a woman to go out with him and she completely deconstructed him in her refusal. She gave a detailed critique of his grooming, dress, manners &c which he listened to and used to re-make himself. He revealed that he was grateful to her for the rest of his life and had stayed in touch over the decades.

yrs,
rubato

User avatar
RayThom
Posts: 8604
Joined: Wed Mar 14, 2012 4:38 pm
Location: Longwood Gardens PA 19348

Climax of an Era

Post by RayThom »

I wonder if there are plans to preserve his high-mileage penis in formalin and display it at "Ripley's Believe It or Don't?"
Image
“In a world whose absurdity appears to be so impenetrable, we simply must reach a greater degree of understanding among us, a greater sincerity.” 

User avatar
Econoline
Posts: 9607
Joined: Sun Apr 18, 2010 6:25 pm
Location: DeKalb, Illinois...out amidst the corn, soybeans, and Republicans

Re: End of an Era

Post by Econoline »

ETA:
Playboy is known, first and foremost, for inventing the centerfold. That said, Hugh Hefner's legendary magazine has published some exemplary prose over its 60-year history. As Hefner once admitted to a group of former Playmates gathered for a Playboy reunion, “Without you, I’d be the publisher of a literary magazine.”
People who are wrong are just as sure they're right as people who are right. The only difference is, they're wrong.
God @The Tweet of God

User avatar
Econoline
Posts: 9607
Joined: Sun Apr 18, 2010 6:25 pm
Location: DeKalb, Illinois...out amidst the corn, soybeans, and Republicans

Re: End of an Era

Post by Econoline »

People who are wrong are just as sure they're right as people who are right. The only difference is, they're wrong.
God @The Tweet of God

User avatar
RayThom
Posts: 8604
Joined: Wed Mar 14, 2012 4:38 pm
Location: Longwood Gardens PA 19348

Climax of an Era

Post by RayThom »

If your erection lasts for longer than 4 hours... invite a Playmate to your room and brag about it.

http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-enter ... 71321.html

"What did you say? Never mind... just keep doing what you're doing. Next!"
Image
“In a world whose absurdity appears to be so impenetrable, we simply must reach a greater degree of understanding among us, a greater sincerity.” 

User avatar
Guinevere
Posts: 8990
Joined: Mon Apr 19, 2010 3:01 pm

Re: End of an Era

Post by Guinevere »

“I ask no favor for my sex. All I ask of our brethren is that they take their feet off our necks.” ~ Ruth Bader Ginsburg, paraphrasing Sarah Moore Grimké

User avatar
RayThom
Posts: 8604
Joined: Wed Mar 14, 2012 4:38 pm
Location: Longwood Gardens PA 19348

Climax of an Era

Post by RayThom »

Here's Hef's last appearance on the Conan O'Brien Show.

What a guy.

Image
“In a world whose absurdity appears to be so impenetrable, we simply must reach a greater degree of understanding among us, a greater sincerity.” 

User avatar
Bicycle Bill
Posts: 9745
Joined: Thu Dec 03, 2015 1:10 pm
Location: Living in a suburb of Berkeley on the Prairie along with my Yellow Rose of Texas

Re: End of an Era

Post by Bicycle Bill »

Anybunny remember this?
Someone told Hef to go take a flying fuck for himself, so he did.
Image
"HARE FORCE ONE"   ——   THEN ▲▲         &   NOW ▼▼

Image
(wings and empennage removed, doing duty as a classroom in Mexico)
Image
-"BB"-
Yes, I suppose I could agree with you ... but then we'd both be wrong, wouldn't we?

User avatar
Scooter
Posts: 17127
Joined: Thu Apr 15, 2010 6:04 pm
Location: Toronto, ON

Re: End of an Era

Post by Scooter »

Image
"The dildo of consequence rarely comes lubed." -- Eileen Rose

"Colonialism is not 'winning' - it's an unsustainable model. Like your hairline." -- Candace Linklater

Post Reply