I’m feeling a little depressed

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liberty
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I’m feeling a little depressed

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I just finished talking to one of my best friends, who was also my former team leader. In case you’re not familiar with the term, it means a technician who serves as a low‑level supervisor.

I already feel somewhat guilty about him. He was a heavy smoker for as long as I knew him, and several times I started to tell him that he should cut down or even quit. But I valued his friendship and never pushed it. He kept smoking regardless.

He retired a while back and had about three good years. Then his health started going downhill, and now he’s almost wheelchair‑bound. On top of that, his wife of 48 years has filed for divorce. I suspect it has something to do with another man, because he’s in a position now where he can’t take care of her. The few times I met and talked with her, I got the feeling she was sending me signals, which I ignored.

So I called him today and advised him not to let his emotions get the better of him in the settlement. I told him to make sure he got his fair share — and by that I meant I think he should get 60%. She did not work, and once the children were grown, most of the hard work was done. Most lawyers feel a duty to take care of their clients. But some husbands overrule their lawyers, and to some people, “duty” is just a word.

He didn’t want to talk about it, and he broke off the conversation. That left me feeling kind of depressed, which bothered me. But at least I got it off my shoulders.
Soon, I’ll post my farewell message. The end is starting to get close. There are many misconceptions about me, and before I go, to live with my ancestors on the steppes, I want to set the record straight.

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The Village Idiot wrote:
Sat Jan 17, 2026 7:59 pm
She did not work
:roll: :lol: :roll:
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liberty wrote:
Sat Jan 17, 2026 7:59 pm
.......I told him to make sure he got his fair share — and by that I meant I think he should get 60%. She did not work, and once the children were grown, most of the hard work was done.....
He should also get the slaves.

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Joe Guy wrote:
Sun Jan 18, 2026 12:37 am
liberty wrote:
Sat Jan 17, 2026 7:59 pm
.......I told him to make sure he got his fair share — and by that I meant I think he should get 60%. She did not work, and once the children were grown, most of the hard work was done.....
He should also get the slaves.
Have you freed your slaves yet?
Soon, I’ll post my farewell message. The end is starting to get close. There are many misconceptions about me, and before I go, to live with my ancestors on the steppes, I want to set the record straight.

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liberty wrote:
Sun Jan 18, 2026 1:19 am
Have you freed your slaves yet?
No. I sold my slaves a while back to a fella from Louisiana but I did let me abos go loose.

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Joe Guy wrote:
Sun Jan 18, 2026 1:37 am
liberty wrote:
Sun Jan 18, 2026 1:19 am
Have you freed your slaves yet?
No. I sold my slaves a while back to a fella from Louisiana but I did let me abos go loose.
We’s poor white trash. We don’t got no slaves. We’uns had us a mule, but he done growed old an’ died. Now we finds ourselves squattin’ on this piece o’ land. We been here nigh on three years, an’ the owner, he’s gonna find us for sure.

We was hopin’ we could git six bales o’ cotton this year an’ have enough to buy us a little patch o’ land over in that wilderness ‘cross the river. But now, as we thinks on it, we’ll be lucky if we git enough cotton to buy us a mule.
Soon, I’ll post my farewell message. The end is starting to get close. There are many misconceptions about me, and before I go, to live with my ancestors on the steppes, I want to set the record straight.

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liberty wrote:
Sun Jan 18, 2026 3:12 am
We’s poor white trash. We don’t got no slaves. We’uns had us a mule, but he done growed old an’ died. Now we finds ourselves squattin’ on this piece o’ land. We been here nigh on three years, an’ the owner, he’s gonna find us for sure.

We was hopin’ we could git six bales o’ cotton this year an’ have enough to buy us a little patch o’ land over in that wilderness ‘cross the river. But now, as we thinks on it, we’ll be lucky if we git enough cotton to buy us a mule.
If'n y'all was to start a GoFundMe, I'd wager a few of us hereabouts would donate to the cause for you to effectuate the employment of a mule.

Just thinkin' out loud here.....

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