Well she looked underage...

[Daisy]

It's all about dragging as many people into the drama as possible RB.

[Scooter]

Isn't it perfectly obvious what this is about? Someone else has been the object of all of the negative attention over the past few days, and she was feeling left out, poor thing, so she came up with the most outrageous thing she could so that people, even those with whom she had no trouble before, would pour heaps of abuse on her.

You know, I'm actually starting to feel sorry for her. I never realized that she was that damaged, that the only way she believes that she is worthy of human contact is if she is being treated badly.

And this latest, well, I don't think her imagination is quite that vivid. I suspect it's her way of dealing with an issue that hits very close to home...

[The Hen]

That would be nice, then why are my posts being censored?

I said;

Yup, why would she say she was deflowered at ...what was it 9? If it wasn't true? ...at about CSB version 4?

I've been with it, since the beginning.

I hope this post stays here and I don't have to email folks the truth.

And the answer is ... I never did.

This is some kind of warped sick fantasy of yours Lo.

Until yesterday, no one other than Gob knew what age I was when I lost my virginity. Why? Because although I admitted I was under aged, I NEVER posted what age I was.

If your scenario was true, why would I have even thought that a sexual encounter at nine years of age was "losing my virginity"? Why would I have thought it was "intimate"? How long before I lost my virginity at nine did I have these fears of "dying a virgin"? When did I even learn about virginity to be so afraid at under nine of "dying a virgin"? Why does no one else but YOU remember these posts?

And if it did happen, what position do you suspect I would take in regards to the OP?

Do you think I would support the position that at 11 years of age the girl had consented to her rape due to this imagined sexual experience you created for me that I am meant to have had at 9 years of age? Should I post that she was asking for it?

I suspose my record for supporting child molesters will go against me here. I am always posting that the child lead them on, and they were asking for it and therefore willingly consenting to the "sexual intimacy" that ensued.

I know, why don't you ask your good friend Gar to open up the old CSB so you can find that thread?

He can close down registrations, so he won't be worried about excessive spamming. He can even close down posting options. Then you can find that thread that no one other than you remembers. (Oh, if only Steve or editec could have found it when they accused Gob and me of posting about nothing else but sex and being pedophiles on the CSB. That would have been the ticket!)

Or doesn't the G bother replying to you any more?

Unless you have better knowledge of my life than I have Lo, I would suggest you shut your malicious, vindictive posts down and not bother going down this path. Your obsessing with me is NOT healthy and you are breaking free from reality with your fixated hatred of me.

You really have nothing to lose but the skerrick of credibility you might still have with some posters ... and you can't afford to lose that.

[Lord Jim]

I suspose my record for supporting child molesters will go against me here.

Well that's just it Hen...

If you didn't have such a record of jumping in to post how "the little slut had it coming" every time there's a story about an underage girl being raped, there'd be no credibility to this whatsoever....

Unfortunately, all those posts are over on the CSB....

[Gob]

Will Lo have the guts to apologise, or the gall to try to wriggle out of this?

[Joe Guy]

The list of people who should apologize for crossing the line of decency is growing.

But I believe we will never see an apology come from any of the offenders unless it is mandated by a higher power.

You know... like if Timothy were to tell quad he needs to apologize to me.

Or if Andrew's wife were to tell him he needs to apologize to Jim.

Or if Buddha were to tell LoCA she needs to apologize to Hen.

I don't know about y'all, but I'm not holding my breath....

[Sean]

Or if Buddha were to tell LoCA she needs to apologize to Hen.

Doesn't Pinky the elephant have that authority?

[Joe Guy]

[The Hen]

Nothing to say on this thread today Lo?

Why am I not surprised.

[Gob]

I'm surprised she has the gall to come here at all, or really no I'm not.

Not taking responsibility for her actions is her hallmark in life.

[The Hen]

How foolish of me to have forgotten that.

[Andrew D]

I lost my virginity a tad under 16 with my boyfriend who was 5 months older than 16.

I would have admitted that I lost my virginity underaged and I was pleased to do so.

Amen to that!

By coincidence, I also first had sex (with another person) when I was 15. (Not quite as close to 16, but the similarity is greater than the difference.)

I never "lost" my virginity.

I threw it overboard at the earliest opportunity and with great eagerness.

What is the whole thing about "losing" one's virginity? As if it were some sort of treasure?

Why, in the modern world, when people (at least women) who are not virgins are not considered "damaged goods" -- as if people were commodities in the first place -- would anyone (except (maybe) priests and nuns) want to "preserve" her or his virginity?

That's like "preserving" one's baby teeth.

[The Hen]

It's a bit like falling pregnant really. It all makes it sound like an accident and therefore not your fault or responsibility.

"Oh dear, I lost my virginity." "Whoops, I fell pregnant".

(Note, usually in that order.)

Losing my virginity when I did WAS my responsibility. If I had wanted to keep it, I would have.

Though there is no similarity between my experience of gaily abandoning my virginity and taking the next bus outta there, and that of the eleven year old child discussed in the OP.

[loCAtek]

Well, that was the first you told us of your father's house noises; how else would I have known of them?

So, no deal then Hen, very well.

[Lord Jim]

Well, thank God this discussion got bumped...

[The Hen]

Well, that was the first you told us of your father's house noises; how else would I have known of them?

So, no deal then Hen, very well.

As I suspected, one of my stories has melded with another in your mind and turned into a third which was never told.

The words you are looking for Lo are ... "I'm sorry Hen. I am confused and I have mixed things up."

In your own time.

[Joe Guy]

I'll never forget the time when I was raped by a kangaroo while at a barbeque in Brisbane. Well, the roo didn't actually rape me, she just stuck her nose into and sniffed my trouser pockets, so I was still a virgin afterward. I was just nine years old at the time.

I was later told that she was looking for her joey and someone had given her my name.

It was a very devastating experience so I really don't want anyone to know about it.

[Lord Jim]

Brisbane has kangaroos?

[Joe Guy]

Brisbane has kangaroos?

They did back when I was nine years old. Many of them used to hang out at the 23 Club. They'd get drunk and always end up in a boxing match.

[The Hen]

Out of interest, can you remember what you meant when you said the following?

So, no deal then Hen, very well.

What deal do you think have I ignored?