IS it wrong to ask what happened to CSB?

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Re: IS it wrong to ask what happened to CSB?

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He's admitted it a few times, the 'Evil ~Steve' (his nic not mine) just wants to antagonize people.

The excuses for it are irrelevant, since he'll make them up if he needs one. The underlying problem is: he feels so powerless in his real life, with the loss of his child custody being the last straw; that the only place he could find any sort of control or power was by being a verbal bully on the CSB.
He became a troll because it was the biggest form of attention he could get; negative attention.

Unfortunately, someone took advantage that and pointed him towards targets, then patted him on the head for being 'strong', so far sadly, he doesn't realize he's being used.

I saw that manipulative side of Gwen from all the 'thanking' she required. So like my mom; it isn't really your gratitude she wants but your indebtedness; your dependence on her. ~Steve has swallowed that hook, line and sinker. What guy wouldn't want that- power and a pretty girl who thinks he's a big, strong man? :roll:

Tell him that though, and you just feed the troll. What he really needs is too get away from his keyboard, get outta that kitchen and go out in the world. Maybe find a real girlfriend and get laid!

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Re: IS it wrong to ask what happened to CSB?

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The underlying problem is: he feels so powerless in his real life, with the loss of his child custody being the last straw;
Well, that may have been the trigger, but the "underlying problem" now is that Steve has developed a serious mental illness...
it isn't really your gratitude she wants but your indebtedness; your dependence on her.
Nailed it.

That is precisely what Gwen seems to need from Steve...dependence... and why their relationship is so fundamentally unhealthy for both of them.
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Re: IS it wrong to ask what happened to CSB?

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I've touched on this in a couple of posts....

Steve may be nutty as a Snickers Bar, and no longer in control of what he says or does....

But Gwen is not crazy....

There's plenty of proof available to show that Gwen is not crazy, despite the crazy things she's said related to Steve...

The clearest , most recent proof that Gwen is not crazy, is the way she has been able to curb her behavior since Gar showed up...

If she were genuinely crazy, she would not be able to that....Steve certainly hasn't....

That makes her manipulation of Steve willful, and as I've said before, pernicious. (I keep using the word "pernicious" because I'm trying to avoid using the word, "evil")
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DisinGWENuous ;)

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DisinGWENuous ;)
I like it! :D
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Lord Jim wrote: In my personal experience with editec over the years, whenever I have said, "hey, editec, I never said that" he has always admitted he got it wrong and apologized. (I know that the well is so poisoned vis a vis Strop that he can't bring himself to do this as far as Strop is concerned, so I understand why Strop has a different take on this...if I was Strop, I would too)

Editec is also capable of self examination, self deprecating humor, and admitting that he might have the wrong end of the stick, and acknowledging that he might be as guilty as anyone else of bad behavior...
Editec also has a very fallible "memory', as he keeps repeating slurs and attacks on people, even after being proved wrong and admitting so.

I know you and I agreed to disagree on this Jim, so I'll just add my tuppence worth, for the consideration of others. ;)

I think Editec is very much the "man behind the curtain" orchestrating both Steve and Gwen's ongoing plunge into insanity.
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it's also become clear to me that Gwen suffers from some kind of personality disorder.
BSG, if she needs to have someone in as pathetic a state as Steve has descended to in order to make herself feel "validated" or "needed", your point is well taken.
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So did Gwen and Editec tie the knot and adopt Steve as their first born? Quad mentioned she is married, it would be the natural course of things since she had been chasing him for years all over more than one board.

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@meric@nwom@n wrote:So did Gwen and Editec tie the knot and adopt Steve as their first born?
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In other news, Gwen actually responded to one of my posts today.

She responded with this - "Sometimes it's not about "sides", it is about sharing one's thoughts freely and without fear.

"Team" dogpiling is ANTI free speech, Joe. If you have to fear losing your friends because of a debate point, they are not your friends."


I'm not sure why she decided to respond to me (and actually used my name), but it was quite out of character for her - because it was direct.

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She responded to me as well. To try and diffuse the fact that Steve had a new sock puppet.

Didn't work. It was Steve before she responded to me, and it was still STeve after she responded to me.

It's a shame she can only respond to try and cover up Steve's mistakes.

That is not an Admin function if you ask me.

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I'm not sure why she decided to respond to me
I believe I can answer that...

It's the same reason she answered a question from Daisy a few days ago....

She's in full kiss-Gar's-butt mode, trying to portray herself as an honest, impartial person who responds to all questions from the membership....

In other words, she' trying to pretend to be someone she has demonstrated repeatedly and consistently that she is not....

ETA:

The problem she has in trying to pull off this snow job is that all of her previous words remain on the board. (If Gar cares to read them.) All he has to do is go through the first few pages of the "Re-vitalizing" thread to see what her normal pattern of behavior is; ignore, obstruct, ignore, obstruct, toss up road blocks and deny that any problems exist, say something smarmy, respond with faux clulessness, and then ignore and obstruct a little more...
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On the subject of Steve... I don't think we should be too quick to ascribe mental illness to him.

He could in fact be the greatest wind-up merchant ever to walk the earth!



Odds are that he's a mentalist though...
Why is it that when Miley Cyrus gets naked and licks a hammer it's 'art' and 'edgy' but when I do it I'm 'drunk' and 'banned from the hardware store'?

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It is a shame for Gwen that her words last longer than her actions. If she had kept the edit funtion to be longer than an hour, she would be able to clean up a bit after herself.
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According to editec, that happened ALL THE TIME on the CSB when the edit function button was eternal, though he was never able to find one example.

Oh ... it was probably all the times I admitted to being a bummer and having incestual sex with the Hatch. You can't find those posts on the CSB. I am sure ed now believes that everything he thought he had read and can't find now has been deleted by poster who wrote them.

I have decided that I have a line in the sand. If you are the sort of person who can admit you fucked up and can apologise for it, you are on my side of the sand line.

If you are the sort of person who will then fight kick and scratch that it was E-V-E-R-Y-O-N-E elses fault other than yours, (and I do mean E-V-E-R-Y-O-N-E elses fault), then you can stay on Gwen's side of the line.

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Well said Hen!

Everyone else:
Please spend some time thinking about that.

It's the new catchphrase dontcha know...

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When I think about it. it's really a mistake to refer to the relationship between Steve and Gwen as a "friendship"....

A true friend would be trying to get help for a person in Steve's mentally debilitated condition, not stoking and feeding his pathology.

No, I think their relationship can best be characterized as an unhealthy co-dependency, rather than a friendship.
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Awesome Possum, Hen! I hadn't bothered to open many of ~Steve's threads due to lack of interest. Guess he noticed that not many posters did and tried to pad his peanut gallery! :lol:

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Where's medi?

Your collective inability to acknowledge this obvious truth makes you all look like fools.


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Cheers Lo.

It was funny really. I was only identifying that a new poster on the CSB had neglected to link to where they had copied and pasted their 'contribution' to the Board, then Steve got all wiffley because I managed to ping his sites within 10 minutes of him getting out of bed during the middle of the night to post them.

The funniest part was when Gwen joined in to say "Of course it isn't my cuddlekin's Steve. He doesn't do cut and paste jobs", just after Steve had already admitted that he posts exactly the same way on a number of occassions(whilst trying to deflect any bad attention from his sock).

Laugh? I almost shat.

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Well now it has become obvious that Garaelb has had a sip of Gwen's koolaid. Guin ask a perfectly reasonable question and is now accused of "strong-arming" the administration.

Good grief.

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